Ever wondered how to attract that social butterfly? Or even the class nerd? Girls love boys who are nice and romantic (but not overly romantic). Here’s how to become that guy!
Steps :
1. Get involved in activities. Girls like guys who are doing things. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have another way to tell her.
2. Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who “you” are is not what the girl is into, you’re not going to get very far. If she won’t like you for who you truly are, she’s not worth it.
3. Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy’s style.
4. Talk to her about stuff she is interested in – such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don’t gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.
5. Ask her to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn’t the girl for you anyway.
6. Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don’t interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can’t act like you do around your male friends. Also, be polite.
7. Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don’t just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she’ll know that you’re interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say “I like your hair/clothes.” To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.
8. Don’t be too clingy, Give her space.
9. When you talk to her, don’t go on about your vacation in Hawaii. Ask questions and show her you are listening, girls like to talk out stories and such.
10. Don’t swear in front of her. Girls don’t want to hear you swear every ten words. But if they swear around you it might be okay.
11. Be sure to try to talk to her as much as possible, and if you like her, just go for it!
12. Make sure you remember her birthday and special dates like your anniversaries if you start dating, because otherwise you may get in trouble if she or you bring the subject up. If you have a terrible memory, don’t bring special dates up, and pray that she doesn’t either.
13. Also when you have free time hang out with her, instead of your guy friends.
14. If you have known the girl for a long time, you may want to ask her out.
15. Do all of this and you will be fine.
Tips :
- Make a point of remembering her birthday and other important things.
- Connect to her using body language. Let her catch you looking at her from the corner of your eye. Show her that you’re interested, but don’t creep her out.
- Show you have confidence; girls hate guys with low self-confidence. But in some cases, girls like shy guys because they might find it “cute.”
- Always stay clean; you can easily drive away a girl if you have bad breath or dirty clothes.
However, if you or your friends are living the hippy lifestyle, go with it full force. Nobody likes a tourist. Hippies pull down much trim. It’s unshaven hippy trim, but trim nonetheless. So, let your freak flag fly. The important thing to remember is that all things are relative. So if you are indeed a wookie, don’t bathe, don’t cut your hair or beard, and don’t worry: You’ll be getting some serious hippie trim.
- Work on building a friendship with her friends (remember that friends play a big role in who to go out with). So get on the friends’ good side so they will give the girl their approval. Or, if you want to be daring, you can even tell the girl’s friends that you like her, and ask them not to tell her (if they tell her, don’t be alarmed—they could be saying that because the girl might like you, which is good for you). Take care of her (be like a guy who gives her a blanket to sleep with when she doesn’t have one.)
- Notice the little things;most girls put a lot of effort in their appearance, etc. so appreciate it! Come up with creative compliments that really make her smile.
- Be creative when you tell her that you like her.
- Try to become her friend first. If you still like her, then ask her out.
- Don’t talk about other girls with her, it may make her feel uncomfortable.
- It’s great to compliment her, but don’t make your comment sound too generic or shallow. It can be something simple but personalize it to her.
